LIFE IS UNDERSTANDABLE

                                  **TAKE TOTAL CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE** 

                                               LIFE IS UNDERSTANDABLE

I am the captain of this so called life, I choose what to say, do, feel, experience, understand and perceive. It’s now becoming clearer to me that we control what we go through in life, which simply means we are the architect of all the emotions and experiences we go through in life. It’s in the moment of decision, our destiny is been shaped. It’s also the action we take today that determines our future. 

What’s your definition of life?
What do you understand by the word “life”?
Have you been living life according to your definition?
What has life offered you since you've been perceiving life as a battlefield?

Most people have this great conviction in them that they need a superhuman to turn their situation around, it is very clear that we shape our destiny and our perception of life shape what we think or understand by the word “life”. Life is full of great moments, lovely moments, sad moments, neutralized moments, hard moments and immense moments. What we focus on becomes reality and I also want you to understand the power of the beliefs you use in life. Beliefs are the fabrics of life; they shape your perception, perceptions shapes your thinking and thus make you produce a state that supports your thoughts at any moment in life. Whether you think something is possible for you or not, well you are right because by saying those things to yourself, you are sending messages to your brain to produce references that support your words. We are the architect of our sadness, happiness, love, hurt, depression, feelings etc. By saying you are capable of doing something is a great signal of positiveness to our nervous system. Our brain will automatically receive it and start working on the references and characteristics that will support us in achieving your aims in life. What am trying to pass across to you is to make you understand life as your mindset; you control what you experience in life. Why do you feel sad whenever someone say or do something bad to you? The way you represent words to yourself matters a lot. Assuming I say something like “you are insane for looking at me in such way”. The fact remains that an insane person won’t understand the word insanity, you won’t even notice that word if you are truly insane. So why do you have to redefine it within you? You automatically go into a state of sadness, a state of anger and a state of revenge or violence. Remember life doesn't have a meaning except the meaning you and I give to it. The map is not the territory, the map is only there to give us a clue of how the territory looks like, and in fact, it’s very possible we see the map differently. Why is that we see a handsome/beautiful man/woman and someone else sees something different? Something ugly/negative, the truth is that the perception we all use is quite different from each other and we see things differently, which automatically determines what we feel. 

I am here to tell you that we are what we think about ourselves, our partner, marriage, relationship, business, country, religion, culture, tradition and beliefs. If you think your marriage is bad because of what you are going through with your partner, well I am here to tell you that someone is out there going through something worse than yours but still perceive his/her marriage as one of the best in the world. If you think your country is not good due to the economy of your country, well am here to tell you that some countries are out there looking forward to be a citizen of your own country in some other areas aside economy because it means a lot to them. If you think your religion is causing too much setbacks for you, well I am here to tell you that some people are out there appreciating your religion more than you can ever imagine. If you think your relationship is not going so well and you keep seeing it as a bad relationship, well I am here to tell you that your relationship is someone is out there seeing you and your partner as his/her role model.
Imagine we are both on a busy road, where thousands of people moving forward and backward, and I asked what those footsteps means to you, I bet you won’t agree with me that those footsteps has a meaning. Now imagine you sitting in your living room around 12:am in the midnight and you could hear a footstep coming towards your direction, and I asked what it means to you, what would you say? Hmm you might say an intruder, or hired assassins, or maybe an armed robber. Now the question is WHY DID YOU GIVE SUCH ANSWER? Well maybe it’s because you have experienced such scene so many years back, or maybe you've heard a friend say something like that, or you've seen it in a movie, or maybe your lecturers or teachers shared some of their experiences with you. But do you also know that someone else’s answer might be different from yours totally? Another person might say his/her lover is coming towards him/her, or maybe his/her friends and family. Did you see the difference between both answers? The only difference in both answers is what I call life REFERENCES. I bet you that both people have heard or experienced/seen/heard such scenario but why didn't they give the same response? Their perception and definition of their experiences determined the response they gave and I am very sure both of them have seen/heard/experienced being with a loved one, and also seen/heard/experienced a scenario whereby an intruder/hired assassin/armed robber carried out an operation which is similar the one above. So what am saying in essence is that we all have the ability to direct our focus, we all have the ability to see the light at the end of the tunnel, we all have the right to make ourselves happy without waiting for an event or someone to make us feel good, we have the ability to control how we feel and make use of our emotions to direct our path. Life has no meaning, there is no such word as bad or good experience, and after all it’s the perception of a man that determines the life you live. The words you say determines the feelings and emotions that comes to you at any moment in time, the words you say to someone matters a lot. Watch what you say to yourself or someone else, do you know how sweet it is to say “THANK YOU” to someone who helped you one way or the day? Do you know how bad it is to say “YOU ARE USELESS” to someone who is always there to pass his/her value across to you in order to bring out the best in you? Do you know how great it is to say “I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART” to someone whom you've shared your bad moments, good moments, cruel and neutral moments with? Do you know how relaxing and promising it is to say “OH WELL, MY DAY WAS GOOD” even though you couldn't achieve what you planned for? Words are a tool of how to represent things to ourselves and it’s very important we watch what we say to ourselves or others in order to create a better state which will support us in everything we do in life.

Are you feeling sad?
Are you feeling hurt?
Are you feeling neglected?
Are you been ignored by the one you love?
Have you been experiencing the word “hate” since you were born?
Are you heartbroken?
Are you in a failed marriage/relationship?

Please this is the time I need you to change your perception about life, now is the time you must know life is more understandable, so far you understand the source of your perception which is your belief, you will realize that life is a beautiful place to live(and that’s your mind). This is whole world is in you, if only you can open your mind to see the beauty of the world. See the great and positive side of everything you go through in life, never look at the negative side of your life experiences. You must distort your bad memories in order to experience your good memories which will automatically create a better future for you. Always be happy about your situation, plant an optimism seed in your heart today, don’t see yourself as a failure, don’t see yourself as a clueless being, don’t see yourself as a meaningless creature. You have something of great value in you, you are a great being who was born to make a difference in life, haven’t you noticed that you learned your most important life lessons in your so called bad/cruel experiences? So what’s stopping you from seeing the positive side of your present situation?

NOTE: THE POWER AND ABILITY TO BRING OUT THE VERY BEST OUT OF YOURSELF IS IN YOU, YOU DON’T NEED A SUPERHUMAN TO TURN YOUR SITUATION AROUND; YOU DON’T NEED A SPIRITUALIST TO HELP YOU FIND SOLUTION TO YOUR PROBLEM. THE CREATOR HAS BESTOWED ALL THE TOOLS OF LIFE IN YOU. WHAT YOU NEED IN LIFE IS ALREADY IN YOU.