IDEOLOGY IN OUR RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE LIFE

IDEOLOGY is the body of doctrine, myth, belief, etc., that guides an individual, social movement, institution, class, or large group. IDEOLOGY is what most humans need in their daily lives in order to achieve their aims and targets in life. IDEOLOGY is not just a WORD, its like a special way of viewing things in life, especially in our marriage and relationship lives. Olden days IDEOLOGY have destroyed lots of marriages, we tend to walk on the path of our fathers in order to make our relationship lives work for the best. For instance, a husband expect his wife to keep shut whenever he's talking or making decisions. A woman of today won't just stand like statue while the man is giving orders, she will want to give suggestions or let you know her views. We've got to be realistic, partners are meant to be companions, they are meant to work with each other in order to make the very best in life. A companion is your adviser,your helper, your wife, your husband, your best friend etc. Most husbands don't give their wives the opportunity to give suggestions in their marriage world, no one is disputing the fact that you the head and also have the final say but at the same time, women also have the right to help you by being your wife, adviser, best friend, mother, sister and your soul mate. WOMEN!!! That doesn't mean you should disrespect your husbands just because you have a suggestion or need to share your views, your husband is the head and will always have the final say. We have to change our IDEOLOGY. 
IDEOLOGY is what activates our inspiration each time we get lost in life, IDEOLOGY is like a key to all doors in life, it leads to happiness, sadness, achievements, 100% understanding, success, marriage, love, trust etc.
We've forgotten the fact that we are now in the days of technology, most women would say "OOH I WANT to GET MARRIED TO A WEALTHY MAN" hmm i pity you, you think you are the most beautiful woman on earth, always using your forefathers IDEOLOGY? You've forgotten we are now in the days of iPad, Facebook, twitter and great connections? If you think you are the most beautiful woman, then try and join some dating sites, men have seen so many beautiful ladies on the internet. You think your long hair is gonna get you a successful man in life? Then check out women that have longer hairs than yours, you think your father's properties will get you a husband? Then check women that have achieved a lot in life even more than we(men) do. WOMEN!!! You've got to change your IDEOLOGY and think like a woman and always know your worth and what you actually want in life.

Note: If you want your marriage/relationship to be successful, you need to check your IDEOLOGY.