TAKE ABSOLUTE CONTROL OF YOUR FEELINGS

The most precious Gift in life are the FEELINGS and EMOTIONS will go through on a daily basis. Majority don't even know the contributions these feelings produce in order to drive us to our present/future state. Feelings are caused by the events that has occurred/presently occurring in our environment, this is one of the greates

t reasons most people find themselves in a less resourceful state, it makes them think to the extent of drowning themselves in a state of unknown. Unbeknownst to them, they are killing the joy of their dreams and hope. Have we ever thought of the causes of our negative emotions i.e sad, angry, depressed, devastated, sour, disappointed, terrible, peeved, etc??? Are you able to recollect the event that made you go through those pains on a daily basis? I need you to understand that its your references that shapes your life. How do you interpret the events that occurs in your life? Do those events empower you or dis empower you? Have you been forming a platform for dis empowering beliefs in your nervous system? What have you linked to your brain just because of what you have been through in the past? PAIN OR PLEASURE?

The truth of the matter is WE ARE NOT HUMAN BEINGS HAVING A SPIRITUAL EXPERIENCE, WE ARE SPIRITUAL BEINGS HAVING A HUMAN EXPERIENCE. WE ARE NOT OUR BODIES, WE ARE NOT OUR CHARACTERS, WE ARE NOT OUR BODIES. We are spirit and we need to accept the fact that everything that happens to us in life only affects our bodies not our soul. So why have we allowed these events to shape our lives in a negative way? Why do we have to torture the people around us because we were once tortured in the past? Why do we have to take revenge on our present partners/spouses because of what the previous partners did to us? You decided to maltreat the people around you because you were once maltreated badly? Yea Saddam Hussein was treated badly when he was a kid but Oprah Winfrey was also maltreated, take a deep look on how she transformed her life in a way the whole world least expect. She was raped at her tender age and was assaulted but still gave her past a good interpretation, and she decided to show love to all the people that surrounds her. You also have in possession of that same power Oprah Winfrey used in shaping her life, you also have that ability to take charge of your life. What belief have you developed to control your life? Is it a global belief? A core belief? A cultural belief? A family belief? A personal belief? A regional belief? There is a belief you have developed to shape the events and future of your life.... ASK YOURSELF THIS QUESTION, AM I IN CHARGE OF MY LIFE? OR AM I BEEN CONTROLLED BY MY EMOTIONS? Do you really want to take charge of your life? Well you need to shift yourself from that un resourceful state, you need to shift your focus and ask yourself better questions(MY NEXT ARTICLE#POWER OF QUESTIONS#). You decided to stay alone because your ex left you for another man/woman? You decided to stay down because you fell from that ladder of success? FOCUS ON THE SOLUTION, NOT THE PROBLEM. There are different ways you can take charge of your feelings, those feelings are your signals to drive you to your destinations in life, so you need to make use of them as fast as you can. Dont try separate yourself from them(you cant).

SOLUTIONS ON HOW TO TAKE TOTAL CONTROL OF YOUR FEELINGS:

1) ASK YOURSELF EMPOWERING QUESTIONS
Questions can pick you from a bad state and catapult you to a pleasurable state, if you are feeling hurt, sad, angry, depressed etc. Ask yourself some questions like:

What can i do to get out from this state?
Am i really angry? or i just need to find a solution to this problem?
Why am i maltreating the people close to me?
Do they even know how i got to this present situation?
Why cant i produce references on how to make life better for us all?

2) SEARCH FOR THE THINGS THAT GIVES YOU PLEASURE

Brainstorm yourself and check your inner spirit, search for the things that gives you pleasure, this is a great way of getting yourself out from a bad state, there are several things you can do which will actually change your mode of thinking, create better ways of solving your problems. When i want to get out from my negative emotions, i read books, i listen to musics, in fact i sing along with my favorite artistes. These are the things that challenges the bad emotions that tries to gets into me on a daily basis. You can also create ways to give yourself pleasure. Maybe visiting friends will do, or pick up your mobile and make that phone call you have been longing for, travelling to some countries, making impact in people's lives, contributing and showing love to people around you. These are the moments you make decisions that shapes your life, ITS IN THE MOMENT OF DECISIONS, OUR DESTINY IS BEEN SHAPED. This is exactly when you will choose the right partner for you, this is when you will make that decision on that abandoned contract, this is when you will take that massive step to your glory.

I bet you that your brain is warming up already to serve you, your systems are ready to shift your focus this minute, you are about to take several steps over all your emotions if you attach these tips to your day to day lives.